Well for me, i wouldn't mind at all (considering how hard it is for me to find err...long story) Because i strongly believe that your parents will definitely choose what or who's best for you. And of course, to have a blissful and blessed marriage(nomatter how short the period will be), blessings from your parents shall be one of the things that you will need the most.
Howeverrrrrrrrr, my biggest concern if my parents were to arrange a marriage for me will be, THE PARTNER. I would be worrying myself to death about what HE might think about me. What if he doesn't like me from the very first time he saw me? what if he couldn't even stand the sight of me? And he was pushed to marry me when he doesn't want to? Or he already has someone else tha he loves dearly? In the end i cant imagine how our marriage will be like. He will start finding someone else that he will actually love, or will he be pretending, and live in a lie all the way to the end. And those are the things that makes me shudder in fright.
So my point is, an arranged marriage is ok with me. As long as my husband-to-be and my mother-inlaw-to-be is ok with me. The truth is, arranged marriage is not for everybody. Some may flourish, and some may just wilt away and die. All in GOD's will.
You must wonder why on earth did i come up with the topic for this post. Again, long story.
Gotta get back to work. Glad to have gotten these things of my chest.
By the way, this post has nothing to do with me (although my mom DID voice it out a couple of times). My parents aren't planning to arrange my marriage. Not yet anyway. Hahaha!!! Oh my..T_T
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i prefer to pick my own =)
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